Domino Presley Blog

ARE YOU THAT STUPID

Why is it that people seem to think Trans people don’t have feelings? It’s not just Trans…Gay, Lesbian, Bi-Racial, Non-”Americans”, etc. are all victims of this as well. It amazes me when I’m out with my friends and people make comments to them about their gender or they start compairing all of us as if we’re not in the room, but on a tv show. It’s fucked up, It’s rude, and often times someone’s feelings get hurt. I’m curious how many genetic women that are athletic and/or more masculine in appearance have to deal with Trans-Phobic comments. I’m sure it happens all the time and it’s unacceptable.

WHO RAISED THIS GENERATION????? Did parent’s just all together give up some time ago? If you didn’t know making comments like the following were rude, you should either smack your parents for lack of teaching manners or slam your head into a wall : “I had no idea you were half black, you look white.”,”Why aren’t your eyes slanted if your asian?”, “She’s a Tranny too? But she’s so pretty…(in front of a group of ts women)” TIP: THINK BEFORE YOU SPEAK! If it sounds offensive in the slightest way, don’t say it out loud. Etiquette classes should be a school requirement. There are too many Fucktards running around unaware of their Fucktardations. I just want to shake them. Why is it Common Sense is the least common thing in the world. If it has a heartbeat, it has feelings. Use your head silly. It’s like UnIntentional Bullying… or maybe it is Intentional…

I was a victim of bullying in elementary and middle school and I think it’s made me a closed person. This one kid Grant in middle school… ughhh He was the worst. every day it was “faggot” this and “faggot” that. He seemed like a really nice person to everyone else but he had it out for me for some reason. I would fake sick so I didn’t have to deal with that ass hole. I wanted to be homeschooled the day I found out that was an option. I got into a lot of fights with a lot of people. The worst part was that I couldn’t keep male friends… Any of the guys that hung out with me were accused of being gay, It didn’t help that I did hook up with a lot of the straight boys in middle and high school (I was never lying any of the boys I named, why would they admit it and why would i lie about them , yuck). I also had no Idea I could transition into who I knew I really was…. and how the fuck do you tell someone (like your extremely strict parents) you know you were supposed to be a girl. I said it to my friend in third grade and that was the last that came out of my mouth. I was quickly banished to hell.

After my transition I only kept 4 or 5 friends. I used to be all the girls favorite gay friend, then I was the gay kid that became a girl. Often times I ended up being the one getting the blame for their drama because I’m assuming it was an easy exit, So I lost one of my best friends Zan to a bunch of backstabbing bitches… If you’ve seen the show New Girl, that’s her… to the t and I should be her CeCe but nooooo….. People are just too close minded. I wish I could run into Grant now and let him get into all of this wonderfulness then smack him in the nuts with my clutch. BOP!

Anyway my point to all this bs is that I don’t want anyone else to go through what I or any one else has had to go through. If it doesn’t affect you, mind your fucking business. If it sounds stupid, dont fucking say it. Next time you think your being cute and you try to throw shade at a ts woman, remember that girl you’re calling a “man” used to be a man, and she will knock you out like a man if she has to lose composure. Just let everyone be fabulous (if anything you should be taking notes).

The Nerds in highschool are going to be your boss one day, The school beauty queen will be the first to get knocked up (if she’s not already), The Goth Kids will eventually graduate to emo and then maybe model for Urban Outfitters or something or get a job at hot topic and the bullies will raise more bullies to bully your children. That saying “Sticks and Stones may break my bones but words will never hurt me” Is a bunch of bullshit. Many of times I would have rather been stoned then listen to shit shit these kids said to me. It will always be in my head whether I got over it or not. (My boyfriend in higschool was stoned on the track by his ROTC class for dating me, He’s also dead now…. Not from that situation, but gives you something to think about, RIP Noah)

I got a little stoned while typing this and have been listening to music to drown out the room mates, so please excuse the all over the placeness…

Love you all
xoxoxo Domino Presley

(side thought): It makes no sense to me. I got made fun of for my hair and for being wild and out there or having a bedazzled phone…. Chris Brown dresses like a Bunny (Really Fabulous Black Gay Guys) and Cee Lo green dresses like cee lo green and OutKast…???? But it was odd for me to do it. Baffles me.

Really?????